People suppose that when you mention a problem you have it is so simple to just take the title of the problem and do something that is the opposite of it.. wrong. When a person says he's in need of more time with you and more moments to remember what love is all about you cannot just offer a hug, an hour and some form of intimacy just to prove that there is apsolutely nothing wrong. Well, love is not a mathematic exercise where you should come up with the right combination of numbers to prove right.. it is about feelings, the so called "warmth", the feeling that when too people share some time together as if there is no external world. That is the moment you can prove being in love and not specific moments full of anxiety of how easily the clock goes round and round.
When the one half of a couple shows some signs that would rather get away from it all, is not because he is in need of someone else, or what someone else would offer to him, but that he is in need of what he used to receive of the current couple and nowadays all these little things are not obvious anymore. If someone was in need to just do something physical then it would be so damn easy to just do it, but it would never fill in the gab he feels, cause all he ever wanted was everything he had with his other half. Can that be more clear?
Why make it so complicated when it's all so clear?
They say that we end up with a specific type of person in our lives. For some reason this type ends up at the same point everytime ~ the end ~ for the same specific reason, but eventually we soon end up with the same human type. When someone realises who that type is, he can isolate that type and move on to finally find who we would be happy with. (quote from a friend)..
For me this type has always been something stable and secure but it always came up with difficulties in the end. The other kind of person i ended up with was unstable and non secure but even i never believed there would be some kind of future there.
Love is something unique, innocent in a way and the greatest feeling in one's heart and we should not make it harmful cause we just waste our precious time to analyse a feeling so pure. Do read a little bit of this and you'll see it's just the same me who needs "that" love. And once you'll understand you will be able to make every bitter moment fade away, cause beautiful moments last in the end.
M.S
